INTERESTED IN OPINIONS & STARTING A CONVERSATION.

[XGC Sentinel]

I have a guy that I found on CharlieOscarDelta.com who is a recruit atm.
He seemed active and laid back the first 2 days.
Since that time, (8 days) he's become more and more disruptive in game and in the two clan meetings he's been to. I'm going to talk to him about it the next time he's online and sober, but wanted to hear what some of your decisions might be on the matter.

More info:
He's questioned and argued about the "way we do things" in XGC and my decisions on things several times in full parties. While I'm not perfect and welcome new ideas or even criticism of my actions, its to often and goes on longer than I'm willing to accept.

What I've decided to do is, tell him that I don't think my clan is a good match for him, and if he asks to be given another chance, I'll tell him what he needs to change about his behavior for that to happen.

My main interest in your opinions though is, since hes been disruptive with me, and may not be a good fit for XGC, do I want to suggest SYN and pursue finding a clan for him there, or just let him go?

I'm curious as to how some of you would react/come to a decision on this.

 

[SYN Ashley]

Depending on the severity of his "disruptiveness" you should have enough information to make an educated decision on his behalf alone. If he was merely talking over you, or expressing his own opinions, I would definately not say he isnt a "match" for your clan, and would, talk to him a little bit. Give him a pep talk if you will, illustrating to him how our community is structrued, and that although it is open for suggestion, by criticizing the way XG operates, he might not be a fit for any division in our community. Also, I would make it a point to let everyone in the clan that if they are going to be disruptive in a meeting, to simply leave, and not waste your time.

Regarding your intentions of transferring him out, understand that in XG, we do not ever transfer problems. Chances are if he is causing problems in your clan, he will no doubt cause problems in any divsion, SYN or not. So, I would not tranfer him to another clan, and place the burden upon someone else. I would like I said, speak with him, let him know the way in which he should approcah you when and if he has a problem with the workings of our community or your clan in particular, but that intentional disruptions or disrespect is not tolerated.

Hope this helps?

-Ashley