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A SOLUTION TO ONE OF OUR PROBLEMS HERE......

Inked Ivy

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Regarding XGG and the women of this community. Please read the whole document.
I am contacting the council on this matter rather than division leaders as I believe you will handle this matter more appropriately. Being the founders of this community I understand and acknowledge that you have built this community into the functional one we have today.

Not all I say is taken seriously within this community due to me being a fairly recent member, so I will highlight my previous experience. I was once in a small clan called SwatzZ; here I was a commander and in charge of clan affairs. I handled creating guides, setting up matches and keeping relations with other clans under control. I have brought this experience with me to XG where I have created guides for my clan [The most recent can be found in our New Dynasty forums]. I left SwatzZ due to having a disagreement with the leader [lets just say, after we reached his goal for number of members, he lost sight of what is actually important in maintaining a sustainable community]. I don’t think the clan exists now, as I cannot find any remnants anywhere; any way, I prefer not to grieve over the past.

As for the issue of XGG: When I was recruited, I was told XG had a section just for the ladies, great I thought, just what I was looking for. I signed up on the website and found XGG in the state it is today. I was recruited into a dysfunctional clan, just what I was trying to leave behind me in the past. I was annoyed that XGG was used as a selling point when I was recruited, but it soon became clear that the member that recruited me didn’t even know the state it was in. With this out in the open, I soon found my place in KoG New Dynasty, thanks to the help of many members. Ive recently re-gained my interest in XGG, and have taken place in some of the discussions that have amounted over in XGG’s forums. It has become clear to me that XGG needs a complete revamp, something of which at my level I am not prepared to do. I don’t want to bite off something I can’t chew and for it to come crashing down once again. I understand that it was a lack of leadership and commitment that lead to XGG’s demise, so I considered those factors and here is my new proposition:

‘KoG/SYN/XGC Fusion’

We have a clan within each of the major sections [KoG, SYN and XGC] that is designed just for the ladies. The clan remains for both males and females, but there are an increased number of females present [I will go over why I think this is appropriate later in my text*]. The clan will follow the same rules as the rest of the division, they will not be too much different from the rest of the clan but they will offer what most females want when searching for a clan, which is freedom from sexism but also knowing that the males present will not hint at there sex at all [It is clear that sexism is against the rules, and I have never encountered as case of it - but my clan members still do things which I and many other ladies consider inappropriate]. The guys which are put in this clan will have to be the more serious of the bunch and may require some special training, but this would be easily achieved.
*Why have both males and females? The new movement with women and gaming is that we no longer want to be seen as ‘girl gamers’, we want to be seen as just gamers. Secluding us within a girl’s only clan is not wanted anymore. Well then you may ask why we need these new specialist clans?- the answer is that we are still cautious about the sexism and silly questions that may be asked- females gaming is becoming more present in the gaming industry- but we are still not accepted in full.
The other reason to have males is that they would stop what happened in XGG from happening- most of the girls went inactive within a short time span, leaving no hope for the community. I’m not saying that males do not have the same social life outside of gaming- but when their lives do come calling they tend to make time for both gaming and their social lives, whereas us females will tend to stay away until we know all is clear and figured out. This means that if a large portion of the females do become inactive within a short time, the males will be there to sustain the clan while they are gone, so when the ladies are ready to come back they will have a functional clan to arrive back to.

Creating these clans will mean that XGG can still be present in the community, so if someone does want to step up to the challenge the opportunity is there. I would be happy to set up a trial version of one of these clans in the KoG division, but only if I can still remain in my current clan [New Dynasty is my home, so this is a top priority]. I know its not usually allowed to be in two clans but I believe I can handle it until I find someone suitable for the generals position, I would need help recruiting both males and females- but I can handle training men for the clan [which I think there would be a lot of interest for, in fact I have some members in mind who would be suitable].
Like I said before, the honor code would be the same as for that division, but I think one change in the rank structure may be appropriate- and that is the inclusion of a second general [or sub-general]. That way there can be one male and one female leader, while this isn’t completely needed, I think it would work well in this instance.

This is just an idea I ‘concocted’ while reading and participating in the XGG discussion, and if it is declined I will just re-consider and create another plan of action.
I’m sorry for writing the equivalent of a novel just on this issue, but I believe it is time that action is taken to create a good home for the ladies of XG.
Thank you for reading,
KoG P01SON IVY.

EDIT: I have spoken to my general. KoG Caedo, and have permission to use KoG New Dynasty as a trial clan for this, if you, the council, feel that creating a new clan for this is not appropriate. I am happy with this method also [I understand with using KoG New Dynasty as a trial that the proposed changes to rank structure will be scrapped]
 

SYN ScubaSteve2553

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Long time ago there was clans with two generals, that did not work out so well, lots of bickering and nothing really happened without the XL latter XS stepped in and settled it...one general is better because more can get done....

About the Ladies and Gents clan, that would be a good idea, since XGG has been on the decline for some time now, but if a clan wants to have a majority female membership base then they could just recruit females....

if u dont mind me asking what sort of special training were u referring too up above...like an etiquette class? lol
 

Inked Ivy

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Long time ago there was clans with two generals, that did not work out so well, lots of bickering and nothing really happened without the XL latter XS stepped in and settled it...one general is better because more can get done....

About the Ladies and Gents clan, that would be a good idea, since XGG has been on the decline for some time now, *but if a clan wants to have a majority female membership base then they could just recruit females....

*if u dont mind me asking what sort of special training were u referring too up above...like an etiquette class? lol
*1-that's sort of what my general has in mind for a tester of this method. The thing is, its hard to 'advertise' a girls clan when its not a specialist one....
*2-Haha lol almost- just saying the limits of 'how long you can push our buttons before our explosion lol'
And in saying that i mean making not so sexist- but sexually related jokes that can be funny at first but then soon become sour, when the whole competitive talking goes to far. And although we have our own limits, there is a general base before something turns serious.
 

SYN ScubaSteve2553

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thats basically going to be on the members to refrain for that sort of behavior, honestly your best bet probably be to let only male members who are over 18 usually they have more self control and can act better than younger individuals, like from experience thats why KoG and SYN was made, to allow XGC to be only 18 and above, a more mature clan base usually equals better attitudes, however like everything there are exceptions to the rule lol

But an all girls thing would be a good idea, as it has a certain pull for female gamers, girls gaming with girls and not worrying about having to deal with all the crap from immature males making sour jokes and comments that arent necessary
 

Inked Ivy

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Oct 7, 2009
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Well, the reason why i don't want it to be in XGC only is i think it would be a good experience for those males who are in KoG and SYN and would be interested. If they ever did transfer away or leave this clan they would leave with a new sense of respect for female gamers, which is good for the xbox community as a whole. If we start teaching people young, it will be better for the future.
And thank you all for replying to my idea :)
 

Inked Ivy

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Oct 7, 2009
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O well, this idea can now be scrapped...
Not! Lol. Im going to try and make an all girls squad within my clan now that I'm gen, and if it gets big enough I'll let it split off into XGG.
Now... to get go recruit that gold... wish me luck. :p