I have to say i will never again go on psn. The people on there are 20x more disrespectful to girls than on xbl. Yes, on xbox i get the boob size comments, which, i can usually laugh off.... but some of the stuff on there is hideous.....
Anyway.. i can't afford blu-rays, so that part is useless on a playstation for me..., i dont have an hd tv anyway, so blu-rays are once again useless... i like playing for free but like i said its horribly sexist over there....
So my vote is for xbox.