• SEXUAL HARASSMENT

      SEXUAL HARASSMENT ONLINE AND IN THE COMMUNITY

      I have recently dealt with two very severe cases of sexual harassment and have come across others during my 6 years in this community.

      There needs to be an open line of communication to female leaders, such as myself, that all women in the community can come to in situations like this!

      I have recently talked to and helped 2 girls who were being manipulated, threatened, and other such controlling behavior by higher ranking male members of the community.

      These girls were being told if they didn't do what their leader asked they would be kicked out of the community, denied rank and were threatened with things like "if you go to anyone I will say you came on to me and they will believe me (leader) and kick you (Girl)... There is NO quid pro quo (this for that) in our community!

      I have gone through the proper channels and these specific situations are being dealt with or have been!

      No female/Male online, especially in our great community, should ever be frightened, scared or feel it is their fault as these women did!

      I personally am now in charge of a safe line for females/males in the community so they can contact me XGC Lizz XS and have someone they can trust to hear their side of the story and have guidance on what steps to take next and have an advocate to help them talk to the male higher ranking members without fear of retribution or ridicule.

      I feel that this should be on the front page to show our NO TOLERANCE to sexual harassment in this community!

      Please feel safe and free to hit me up about these situations and I will pass them info to XGC x0 0 7x XI and we will investigate and he will deal with the proven offenders THERE IS ZERO TOLERANCE on this and offenders will be REMOVED.... but know, any FAKE accusations will result with the same penalty!!

      Also this ZERO TOLERANCE goes for bullying, abuse or extreme ill treatment of ANY member!

      XG is a family and we should treat each other with respect and compassion! We are here to game, make friends and HAVE FUN!

      No one should ever be in fear or feel abused or threatened!
      Comments 70 Comments
      1. XGC x0 0 7x XI's Avatar
        XGC x0 0 7x XI -
        Just to be clear this will not be tolerated in our community! People who bully members or gamers will removed immediately. Everyone, male and female will feel safe. If you use your rank to gain anything you will be removed. If you are experiencing this currently please come forward so we can deal with these offenses swiftly! ZERO TOLLERANCE! Any questions please come ask me or Liz.
      1. GeorgiaTexan007's Avatar
        GeorgiaTexan007 -
        I support your cause
      1. XGC TrueShot XS's Avatar
        XGC TrueShot XS -
        I support your cause as well lizz and great job for coming forward and giving other female gamers someone to come to for guidance and help!!!
      1. XGC Lizz XS's Avatar
        XGC Lizz XS -
        thanks so much
      1. SUCIIDEGOBLIIN's Avatar
        SUCIIDEGOBLIIN -
        I'm with u 100%
      1. xDipNDieselx's Avatar
        xDipNDieselx -
        I agree 100 ℅ and XGC LIZZ XS for valued Leader
      1. XGC DeWhit69's Avatar
        XGC DeWhit69 -
        Really, seriously yall wanna talk about zero tolerance and let pieces of **** like XGC Krito XS back in, after he sexually assaulted, attacked, and shared a personal video of a former XGC female general. yall kicked the female general out because you couldn't do anything to krito because he left the community after he shared a personal video in your section & division leader voxer chat for all to see. Do you know she almost commited suicide because of that incident. She was so embarrassed, and yall kicked her out because yall said she caused drama, which is why she didn't say anything to the higher ups in the first place.

        I JUST CANT BELIEVE YALL SITTING HERE SAYING THIS AND THEN YOU ALLOW SEXUALLY PREDITORS, THAT YALL KNOW ABOUT, BACK INTO THE COMMUNITY TO DO IT AGAIN TO SOMEONE ELSE.
      1. SYN Momma Wolf's Avatar
        SYN Momma Wolf -
        I just recently went through sexual harassment by a section leader and it was hard for me to come forward but I tell you what it was the best thing I ever did cause he wasn't only doing it to me he was doing it to other girls in my squad and other squads I encourage my girls to come forward and not be afraid I was lucky I had my general and the xds behind me and encourage me to tell my story and he was removed from the community
      1. Epiphany of Jo's Avatar
        Epiphany of Jo -
        I 100% agree with this, and would like to make sure 100% that even if it is NOT a leader in this community that they will be dealt with, with sincerity, and with confidence that they will not be frightened to come to someone about this very serious crime.

        My clan has been dealing with a predator ongoing now for a while, and even though he is on the DNR he keeps coming back to prey on our women. I understand this is hard to stop him, but we as a community can come together to protect our members from being victimized. Thank you LIZZ for this thread, and putting it on the front page. This needs to be talked about and communicated about, because it is very serious, and can get anyone found guilty a lawsuit if they are doing anything like this.

        However we must also take into consideration that lying will also not be tolerated. I would like to know how we can counter those who lie about it, and find a way to get those who have been accused back into this community if they are found guilty, but it was found out later it was a lie. We need to take measures to protect from both ways. This is hard to do, I understand, but surely this great community could do with a policy on how to handle scenarios from both points of view.

        Again, thank you for this LIZZ, it is much needed. I know it will make all of our members feel safer to use the open door policy and come to a trusted leader to talk about anything concerning this subject.
      1. XGC Lizz XS's Avatar
        XGC Lizz XS -
        Quote Originally Posted by epiphany of jo View Post
        i 100% agree with this, and would like to make sure 100% that even if it is not a leader in this community that they will be dealt with, with sincerity, and with confidence that they will not be frightened to come to someone about this very serious crime.

        My clan has been dealing with a predator ongoing now for a while, and even though he is on the dnr he keeps coming back to prey on our women. I understand this is hard to stop him, but we as a community can come together to protect our members from being victimized. Thank you lizz for this thread, and putting it on the front page. This needs to be talked about and communicated about, because it is very serious, and can get anyone found guilty a lawsuit if they are doing anything like this.

        However we must also take into consideration that lying will also not be tolerated. I would like to know how we can counter those who lie about it, and find a way to get those who have been accused back into this community if they are found guilty, but it was found out later it was a lie. We need to take measures to protect from both ways. This is hard to do, i understand, but surely this great community could do with a policy on how to handle scenarios from both points of view.

        Again, thank you for this lizz, it is much needed. I know it will make all of our members feel safer to use the open door policy and come to a trusted leader to talk about anything concerning this subject.


        false accusers will be dealt with in the same manner it states that in the article 100% no tolerance for offenders or false accusers!!
      1. Epiphany of Jo's Avatar
        Epiphany of Jo -
        Quote Originally Posted by XGC Lizz XS View Post
        false accusers will be dealt with in the same manner it states that in the article 100% no tolerance for offenders or false accusers!!

        Thank you very much, I did read all of that once over. I appreciate everything being done to help our members. Keep up the good work. It is not a perfect science, but it is in the makes to help our members feel safer in this community, and I do appreciate everything that has happened to help move forward with this policy, and everything in the future that will happen to help detour anyone thinking they can get away with these issues.
      1. XGC Lizz XS's Avatar
        XGC Lizz XS -
        Thank you i will do my best AS WILL AS OUR LEADERS!!
      1. SYN Sweetz's Avatar
        SYN Sweetz -
        Thank you for keeping this community great ! ^.^
      1. GeorgiaTexan007's Avatar
        GeorgiaTexan007 -
        Yea, i had a chick raging on about how she wanted my wang.... But i didnt report it. Will i get in trouble for not reporting it?
      1. Epiphany of Jo's Avatar
        Epiphany of Jo -
        Quote Originally Posted by GeorgiaTexan007 View Post
        Yea, i had a chick raging on about how she wanted my wang.... But i didnt report it. Will i get in trouble for not reporting it?

        This is a serious offense. If you are threatened by someone or feel violated and harrassed then you should report it. There is no punishment for the victim.

        This is not a joking matter, and I do hope everyone sees just how serious this is and wont take this as a light subject.
      1. XGC Traitor XC's Avatar
        XGC Traitor XC -
        Quote Originally Posted by XGC DeWhit69 View Post
        I JUST CANT BELIEVE YALL SITTING HERE SAYING THIS AND THEN YOU ALLOW SEXUALLY PREDITORS, THAT YALL KNOW ABOUT, BACK INTO THE COMMUNITY TO DO IT AGAIN TO SOMEONE ELSE.
        I have found no evidence to support your claim that Kirito has returned to the community. He left Xiled Gaming to avoid being kicked out, and he has not applied to return through the GWG. The general in question was removed from the community when her undisclosed relationship with a direct superior ended, causing the implosion of an entire section and division-wide drama. XGs policy on dating within the chain of command is very clear, and for it to be hidden from their Division Leaders is also a ZERO TOLERANCE offense. If, at any time prior to their ejection from the community, she had brought forth evidence indicating his inappropriate behavior, it would have been handled as Lizz stated above. Anything else, beyond the scope of Xbox Live or this website, is a matter for local law enforcement.

        If you have evidence that Kirito has returned to XG by means other than the Grass Wasnt Greener forum, please contact me via Xbox. He is not the kind of member that we want representing Xiled Gaming in any capacity, and we will work to rectify the situation quickly. Otherwise, quit talking out of your ***. This is not a forum for you to be spewing your years old, unsubstantiated bull****.
      1. XGC Cream Soda's Avatar
        XGC Cream Soda -
        I also support this also joined this community cause you do not bully other. I am constanly bullied because I am a different person by kids not in this community also while I was a member of xgn I was bullied by kids outside of the community. people say block them but it doesnt help , they make new gamertags to continue harassing you then they thearten you if you don't join there party. people need to grow up and stop discrimanting against people with disablities
      1. GingerSnap0689's Avatar
        GingerSnap0689 -
        I was one of those girls I was kicked out for something not in the honor code and still pissed about what Anarchy had became in the 7 months I was in the clan
        Will not rejoined Anarchy I was ANgS
      1. PookieJr tK's Avatar
        PookieJr tK -
        I just honestly don't see why people have to even do it period. Like come on, it's not going to make you anymore of a person, it'll just make you look like a sad piece of ****. Saying that Sexual Harassment isn't tolerated, is like saying you can't be a modder OR play with modders (even though people still do and have modder friends.) Anyways back to what i was saying, People who like to sexually harass female members (or male members I've seen it be both), Just need to have their accounts banned from Xbox (temp or perm), or just have their IP or Console banned lol. Anyways, people just don't do it alright? It doesn't make you look cool, it doesn't make you look awesome, it just makes you look like a pathetic retard, who doesn't deserve to live.
      1. SYN V1v1d's Avatar
        SYN V1v1d -
        YES SEXUAL harassment will not b tolerated we do not need female members feeling that way. thay feel like their trapped have no way out afraid thay will get in trouble if u are having a issue please follow ur chain of command and please step up we are here to make this a safe environment game and help our fellow members grow n prosper
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